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Hello My Love, THE BOOK IS HERE! OH MY GOODNESS… the last 2 months have been insane on my end. Working with coaching clients, matchmaking, participating in a few trainings with about 40 other dating and relationship coaches across the world and FINALLY the release of my NEW BOOK – Fearless Love – Growing Through Divorce, Dating and Divine Purpose to Heal, Thrive and Attract the Love You Desire. I just wanted to take a minute and say THANK YOU to YOU! You have been on this journey with me and I am glad to be a part of your journey as well. My prayer is this book with encourage, guide and heal many people in the world and I would LOVE your help. Here is a link to the ebook (you can download from any phone, laptop, tablet, pc for FREE for only 48 hours – May 25th-26th). I’m making it available for free because I would really LOVE your feedback. Please leave the good stuff on Amazon Reviews and if you have any constructive feedback that may benefit me, please share directly with me as I want to make this book beneficial to many. Please check it out, please share with a friend and leave a review… it would mean so much to me to have you be the first to read it and I hope it will truly help many people out there! For ranking purposes PLEASE go to the Amazon link HERE AND in the kindle search box type “Fearless Love” and you will see the book on growing through divorce, dating and divine purpose to heal, thrive and... read more
NEW BOOK Release – Fearless Love: Growing Through Divorce, Dating and Divine Purpose

NEW BOOK Release – Fearless Love: Growing Through Divorce, Dating and Divine Purpose

OH MY GOODNESS… the last 2 months have been insane on my end. Working with coaching clients, matchmaking, participating in a few trainings with over 40 other dating and relationship coaches across the world and FINALLY the upcoming release of my NEW BOOK – “Fearless Love” – Growing Through Divorce, Dating and Divine Purpose to Heal, Thrive and Attract the Love You Desire.  I just wanted to take a minute and say THANK YOU to YOU! You have been on this journey with me and I am glad to be a part of your journey as well. I wanted to share this excerpt out of my book with you and tell me what you think: “Remember that every relationship is a holy assignment. God does not send you what you think you want. God sends you what you need in order to be healed. It’s going to come up in different areas, with different people, and each time it is going to bring about a different feeling. Your task is to remember the truth. You are worthy of great love. We go looking for relationships with somebody who wants the same things we do. We look for somebody who likes the same things we like. People that are going in the same direction we are going. We know there’s someone else out there just like me. Without knowing it, we go out searching for ourselves, believing that if we can find somebody like us, we will be happy. But the truthful part is, we don’t always like who we are because we have forgotten the real truth. We think... read more
For Open-Minded People Only

For Open-Minded People Only

Recently I had a debate that pushed A LOT of my patience buttons. One thing I don’t have much patience for being “Closed-Minded” so it was a clear indication for me that I needed to write this struggle down and share. Have you been struggling with feeling tired with the life you’ve been living? Do you feel like you’ve been searching for this elusive thing they call “Happiness”? Have you searched in churches, multiple careers, multiple relationships, etc and yet you still haven’t found HAPPY? I’ve been a seeker since I was a child. I was always seeking connection with God. I was always seeking a new car, redecorating my house, new clothes, feeling unsatisfied in my relationships. When I went through my divorce in 2008 I walked away from my picture-perfect life, my four bedroom house on 2 acres, the husband who had never cheated or abused, but I knew something was still missing from my life. After walking away from everything I owned, I set out on a journey to find me. Being stripped of all of my possessions, moved into a 2 bedroom apartment in a town 750 miles from everything I knew, on a quest to find HAPPINESS. After a lot of heartache, which I will spare you because it is all in my upcoming book, “Fearless Love”, I found myself 60% happy with my life. I had made some new friends who encouraged me to seek solitude in FAITH and our church. I believed in and felt I understood God, the Bible, Christ, love for mankind and helping my community but there was still... read more
Are you TIRED of The Games We Play In Dating and Relationships?

Are you TIRED of The Games We Play In Dating and Relationships?

WHO ISN’T?? I have quite a track record of failed attempts at Love! As a matter of fact, I have been very good at meeting lots of men, jumping into relationships only to realize it wasn’t the right fit, they didn’t give what I needed and I was left feeling like a failure… yet again! The last year or so, I have worked at being very authentic in my relationships and learning to speak my truth. This is not always easy at times but here’s the thing, when we don’t speak our truth, set boundaries for what we desire and live from a place of vulnerability and authenticity than we are denying our Soul’s growth. I promised myself going into another relationship that I will always be authentic with who I am, what I want, what amazing amount of love I have to offer and be completely open and honest in wanting to create such an amazing friendship and relationship where 2 people adore, appreciate and respect each other. A relationship like never before! I know great Love takes time and patience, 2 people wanting the same things and working towards something great. My entire life, my business, my heart is very God centered. I believe relationships are a holy assignment. Where 2 people are expected to grow, transform and learn together with the premise of God’s light and guidance always guiding our steps, making this world a better place because 2 people, open, honest, vulnerable… Finding and omitting the greatest Love known to man can only be a light onto the world… And a reason to make God... read more
Need Greater Clarity About Your Relationships?

Need Greater Clarity About Your Relationships?

If you are reading this, then you want to receive greater clarity about your relationships, CORRECT? Well take some notes! Most of us assume when we talk about “relationship issues” we are talking about romantic relationships but the primary relationship that is the cornerstone about relationships to anyone and that is the relationship with ourselves. Have you ever noticed when you have problems in relationships one of the problems was you? Did you ever get so excited around someone you like that you acted like a total idiot? You know how sometimes you do really stupid stuff in relationships and then you say to yourself, “Oh my God I can’t believe I did that!” One of my favorite studies of A Course In Miracles says, “It is not your job to seek for love, it is merely your job to seek the barriers you have against love coming!” It’s a matter of knowing that we are perfect souls in this world. We don’t need plastic surgery, more money, be a more exciting person, etc… We need to removed barriers, not add more shit! What are your barriers that are keeping love away? Ask yourself that question…What are they?  Write down what you feel may be holding your back. Now think of a magnet… A magnet just attracts without going out and seeking things to attract to it. Having magnetic power will automatically attract what is meant to come to us when we are ready. The universe is always sending a steady stream of opportunities to you. But often times we screw up those opportunities. It’s like getting ready to run... read more
Is Music Ruining Your Chances At Love?

Is Music Ruining Your Chances At Love?

How many times have you screamed hateful love song at the top of your lungs while driving down the road thinking about some idiot that broke your heart? Yep, I’ve been there myself! I was driving down the street the other day and heard the Carrie Underwood song Before He Cheats… And all I could think was, at one point in time I thought that was a good song but the thought crossed my mind,  had only known then what I know now… Shame on so many of the fantastic artist that just focus on such negativity. But here’s the problem, what you think about comes about! I know so much revolves around love or broken hearts, I have been there and done that, however when we give our energy to these songs it imprints this negativity in our subconscious mind (where we hold onto shit)… So when you are screaming the lyrics, “I took a Louisville slugger to both headlights, slashed a hole in all 4 tires, maybe next time he’ll think before he cheats!” … You are just thinking in terms of hate and hate breeds more hate! Look at all the war and negativity in this world… Is it getting any better? Of course not, we fight violence with violence. Let’s turn this around if you are needing some advice after a divorce or breakup. Steps to getting over a lover while staying away from the “hate songs”: 1. Write a letter to them explaining everything they did to hurt you, tell them off, tell them every single thing that you might be afraid to say,... read more
Are You Chasing LOVE Away?

Are You Chasing LOVE Away?

Have you ever been so frustrated with someone you are dating and picked apart every little thing about them? OMG… ME TOO! And guess what?? I ruined many relationships! Are you chasing LOVE AWAY?           Having unrealistic or unfulfilled expectations is a sure way to ruin a relationship. When someone strongly desires that their partner meets there every expectation they become blinded to who their partner really is. Even if the person tries to meet the expectations, it will never be exactly what that person wants. That is because expectations in relationships are usually very unattainable. We all have this preconceived notion of what we want in a perfect partner. When someone has unclear or unspoken expectations they become frustrated, usually sabotaging what might be a happy relationship. In my relationships, when I started picking apart, what was usually happening was my own self-sabotaging… NOT what he was or wasn’t doing. It’s like this… Ask yourself, “When I get frustrated with the things he is or is not doing, what am I noticing within myself? Did the idea of him not calling me back in a timely manner (one that I would have liked) made me feel those trust or abandonment issues from my previous relationships or childhood issues with my unloving parents?” So many times we are just projecting our own crap on to some unsuspecting person. Developing Realistic Expectations Recognize that there is indeed a problem. This is half the battle. Ask yourself, “Why am I not accepting this person the way they are?” Except responsibility for your actions and words. Be willing to... read more
Do this one thing to have more ABUNDANCE!

Do this one thing to have more ABUNDANCE!

OMG I have got to share this! The POWER of manifesting and how to use your money mindset to attract what you want. This can apply to money, dating, career, anything! I’ve really taken the last couple months to take a little step back with my business, focus on how I really want to be able to impact people’s lives in 2016 and one thing that always comes up for me is: “Leslie, you are the sole provider of your household, you can’t take a break, you can’t indulge in frivolous things, you can’t be so picky with choosing your clientele…” But something huge happened for me over the last week and I’m so excited to tell you about this… So check out these scenarios: I booked a girls weekend trip to go visit my friend Holly in Dallas knowing well and good that I just released my online program and I need to be promoting that. I decided not to take on any new clients until January a.k.a. no actual income. (What the hell was I thinking??) I was also planning on packing light and not checking a bag but I decided to bring the extra large suitcase just in case I decided to do some shopping while in Dallas. I said to Holly, “Girl, I can’t go crazy on this trip, I’m doing a lot of rebranding and new marketing stuff plus we also just booked a trip to Costa Rica for the following month” (Have I mentioned I decided not to take on any new clients for 2 months??) So I get to Dallas and we... read more
What Women Really Want

What Women Really Want

What Women Really Want I always hear guys say that “women are crazy” or “women are impossible to figure out” or “I don’t understand women, WHAT DO WOMEN REALLY WANT?” I work with so many men who are lost when it comes to dating. Especially dating after divorce, maybe you know you messed up somewhere in your marriage and you want to get it right this time with women. So today I’m going to give it to you straight. It’s not as complicated as you may think, but yes, it takes effort. YES, I said EFFORT Fellas! Let’s do this… Take charge and make plans for dates. We don’t mind getting a say in the planning, but we don’t want to do it all. Men are often not stepping up and making decisions, leaving women in a more masculine role. Listen for what hints we give, get to know us and you’ll know where to take us. BUT the first step is to ASK! Don’t forget us. We know you are busy at work and want to hang out with your buddies, but be considerate and don’t forget us. Go shopping with us and hold our bags. Take us out to eat. Don’t make us an afterthought in your plans – or we may one day not be there to make plans with at all. And we won’t complain so much when you plan another poker night with the guys. Yeah, we love the romantic, lovey-dovey stuff. Most of us want the love and attention in a relationship. Do something special for us, even if it’s just picking up flowers... read more
How to get over “Broke Mentality”

How to get over “Broke Mentality”

How many times have you heard The statement, “money is the root of all…” I’m not even going to “say” what you were probably thinking but what IS most evil is believing that negative statement. We need money to survive but how we look at money greatly determines how much of it comes in and out of our fingertips. We all have financial obligations and mine started at a very young age. Married at 19, bought our first house at 21, went through a bankruptcy a few years later, then divorce, having 2 homes, student loans, 2 kids, credit cards… I totally get it. BEING AN ADULT SUCKS! But I have learned some secrets around money mindset and getting over “broke mentality” so I would love to share them with you. When a negative belief comes up, acknowledge that belief and explain how that belief has caused you trouble in your life thus far. Feel the emotions around that belief. What are those emotions? How does money or bills make you feel? Visualize that you are now waking up to a new, beautiful day. The storm has passed and you are no longer a victim to this broke mentality. You are no longer powerless. You are now very powerful because you have taken back the power that was rightfully yours to begin with. You are powerful because you have already learned how to acknowledge your resistance and beliefs around money and happiness so that it will release itself on its own. Because everyone needs motivation in order to begin scrubbing those negative thoughts and emotions from their own systems,... read more

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