GIFT 🎁 #3 KEY to Attracting What/Who you want {VIDEO INSIDE}

Are you wanting to FEEL more Empowered in your LOVE life? … MUST WATCH Video!

Hello Love,

YOU will definitely want to check out ⬇️…

THIS video below is what I give to my membership clients ONLY…

But today I am sharing this one with YOU!

1. Learn HOW to attract a great mate to you!
2. DO NOT MISS the last and FINAL Audio where we are going to tie everything together and help you find exactly what you are seeking.

“What you are seeking is seeking YOU!” – Rumi

WATCH today’s lesson here.  (this one is a bit longer because it is part of my paid program so do it when you have about 30-45 minutes). 

Book mark it if you need to! XO

Much Love to you,
Leslie Z.

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From Dating Disasters to Happy Relationship

From Dating Disasters to Happy Relationship

I had a woman asked me recently, “How did you go from dating disasters to a happy relationship?”

The easy answer is, I manifested him!

NO LIE!

I manifested him in the exact time that I predicted.

I’ll get to the manifesting in a few but first…

I had to realize some serious and painful things about me!

Lots of failed relationships.
Troubled childhood.
Some drinking… some binge eating.
A battle with some anxiety and a little depression.
Failed career attempts.
Working in a dead end job.

I had to ask myself, “What the HELL am I doing with my life??”

I was almost 40!

My life had become unmanageable and miserable even though I appeared to be having fun and happy.

APPEARED TO BE…

I NEEDED RADICAL CHANGE!

I became a hermit for about a year.

Hired a life coach.

Started to meditate.

Changed my diet.

Ditched most of my friends.

Took some personal growth classes.

And started feeling at peace.

So the short version of this story is, a couple years later, I decided to take this certification class on something called Time Line Therapy so I could better help my clients heal from the past and find great love.

Well in my class we got to practice on each other and I decided one of my goals was that I wanted to basically create the perfect man for me. Picture the movie, “Weird Science”.

So using this technique I had just learned, my class partner and I did TLT goal setting with the intention that I meet my perfect mate in 30 days.

I got really serious about the core values that I was looking for and I put this man into my time line in 30 days from that date.

Well it was about 5 weeks later that I met Chris on Tinder.

YES… I said Tinder!

Go ahead and laugh but I always tell my clients, “There are good people everywhere when you are open minded and ready!”

So fast forward, at the time of this writing, it’s been almost 2 years since that day!

He is pretty much everything I asked for.

Our relationship has its ups and downs. We have been through a TON together.
But we are happy.

I will say this…

Relationships are not for the faint of heart.
They take the conscious effort of 2 people.
Do the work to heal from the past as much as you can before getting into a relationship.
Hire a coach or mentor to help you with the healing and manifesting.
Have fun with the process, don’t take it all personal.

Wanting help with manifesting your ideal mate?

Let’s have a conversation about what that might look like for you.

Click Here < 

Much love to you!

Leslie XO

Could Your Past Be Holding You Back From Love??

Could Your Past Be Holding You Back From Love??

Imagine letting go of anger FOREVER… Can you imagine that?

What about hurt from that person who broke your heart years ago? Or maybe just weeks or months ago?

Hey there… It’s Leslie…

If I told you I have a special technique which allows you to let go of negative emotions like:
=====> anger, sadness, fear, hurt, guilt, shame… From the past…

what would that do for you in EVERY AREA of your life??

Pretty Fucking amazing and transformational, huh??

Time Line Therapy® is an advanced form of neurolinguistic programming.

It also allows people to get rid of limiting decisions like:
=====> “I’m not good enough”, or “I can’t have what I want”, “I can’t make as much money as I want”.

Typical life coaching would normally take 6 to 12 months to accomplish MAJOR transformation..

BUT WHAT IF… WHAT IF we do it in a 3 day weekend??

I’m highly trained in these advanced methodologies that help people to let go of negative emotions and limitations from the past and help them create a compelling future. Would you be interested in learning how I can help you with that?

I have just ONE opening available this next month for a 3 day Breakthrough weekend…
If you are ready to let go of all those negative emotions in no time flat, let’s chat and see if this is a good fit for you!
=====> There is something you can do

On your side,
Leslie XO

P.S. You may be thinking this sounds too good to be true….
BUT what if it wasn’t?

Let’s chat

Like a magic wand… this brings “Soulicious” LOVE right to you….

Like a magic wand… this brings “Soulicious” LOVE right to you….

Are you hitting a brick wall when it comes to LOVE?

Hello Beautiful Soul, Leslie here…

While doing some work with a friend tonight, we uncovered a
very valuable lesson in awareness and consciousness:

Every person that comes in and out of our lives is there for a lesson
and for us to grow from the experience {I know you have heard this a million times}…
We know this to be true, we preach it all the time but yet are you really embodying that understanding?

When it comes to relationships you might pray or think to yourself,
“Dear God please bring me someone to love!”

The universe delivers someone to love and when it doesn’t work out as expected,
we mourn the experience and therefore the lessons.

But what if… What if you MUST pay the price of going through these hard lessons
AND learning the lessons in order to ACTUALLY RECEIVE what you long for…

What is the reward if we skip the work?

What if you reverse engineer your prayers? What if your prayers sounded like this,
“God please give me someone who is hard to love.

And then the universe delivers this person that is hard to love in order for you
to open your heart so very wide because in order for you to love the way that God intended you to,
your heart is extremely small the way it might be right now.

So what if… in order to get to the castle you’ve got to swim the moat first. But what if I told you you absolutely cannot get to the castle or appreciate the castle until you have gone through that awful moat?

WOULD YOU DO IT??

What choice do you have? Sit out on the lawn, wishing you were inside the castle where
you know you could have the most abundant and happy life OR just swim the fucking moat
and stop crying about getting your hair wet, or about leaches, eels or alligators…

When you get inside of that castle, you’re going to appreciate the abundant food awaiting you,
the huge, warm stone fireplaces in every room, the peaceful music playing… So many other luxuries
that you might not appreciate had you not accepted your path,
embraced the lessons and…
jumped in with both feet!

Are you ready for that challenge?

Could you imagine what it would feel like…
You take the hard lessons from your past relationship, this current relationship or maybe the next one…

You take the lessons, you move through the hurt and the pain…
And the relationship after that….

WHAT IF…. it’s this “Soulicious” kind of Love that you have only dreamed of??

Again… are you ready to swim the moat?

It’s really that simple.

Are you tired of spinning your wheels in Love?
Apply for a conversation with me
by clicking here.

I’ll be your life preserver,
Leslie XO

Are you TIRED of The Games We Play In Dating and Relationships?

Are you TIRED of The Games We Play In Dating and Relationships?

WHO ISN’T??

I have quite a track record of failed attempts at Love! As a matter of fact, I have been very good at meeting lots of men, jumping into relationships only to realize it wasn’t the right fit, they didn’t give what I needed and I was left feeling like a failure… yet again!

The last year or so, I have worked at being very authentic in my relationships and learning to speak my truth.

This is not always easy at times but here’s the thing, when we don’t speak our truth, set boundaries for what we desire and live from a place of vulnerability and authenticity than we are denying our Soul’s growth.

I promised myself going into another relationship that I will always be authentic with who I am, what I want, what amazing amount of love I have to offer and be completely open and honest in wanting to create such an amazing friendship and relationship where 2 people adore, appreciate and respect each other. A relationship like never before!

I know great Love takes time and patience, 2 people wanting the same things and working towards something great. My entire life, my business, my heart is very God centered. I believe relationships are a holy assignment. Where 2 people are expected to grow, transform and learn together with the premise of God’s light and guidance always guiding our steps, making this world a better place because 2 people, open, honest, vulnerable… Finding and omitting the greatest Love known to man can only be a light onto the world… And a reason to make God smile and say, “Look, I brought you two together to grow in Love, to make it through the hard times where your ego (E.G.O.= Edging God Out) had to be put aside time and time again, where you had to learn unconditional Love, understanding, and your persistence pleases Me!”

I have learned through falling down so many times that I will persist, while being authentic to who I am, what I desire and what I know God desires for me!

When I decided to open my heart to a potential relationship recently, I knew it wouldn’t be easy, I knew there would be many differences in our personalities but I felt God telling me this was my holy assignment and to go with it… whatever IT may be!

That being said, I also know that I need to be unapologetically authentic in what I desire and what will or won’t work for me. 

This is TRULY being ready for that holy assignment of a great relationship.

Are you READY?

  • Are you ready to learn how to effectively communicate if you haven’t in the past?
  • Are you ready to not settle for someone who may not be a good match for you?
  • Are you ready to calmly communicate your preferences and what does/doesn’t work for you?
  • Are you ready to possibly “feel rejected” when your preferences aren’t met and you need to walk away?

I’ve read all the books and taken all the courses that say, “Play the game, don’t let a guy know if you really like them, play hard to get, blah, blah, blah”… I’m over that shit and don’t want to be ANYONE ELSE BUT ME… If someone isn’t ready for an authentic, honest and vulnerable relationship than they are not ready for you and that’s ok!

Grant it, there are the “do’s and don’t’s” of Dating and that’s a whole nother article (stay tuned for that one coming soon) but if you are ready to be vulnerable, ready to be patient, honest and understanding with the bumps along the relationship road, than you are ready for great Love!
Relationships are not meant to be perfect and easy, they are work and patience. In this over-stimulated world we live in, it’s important to understand that Love isn’t like the typical fairy tale ending after the 2 hour movie! Are you ready for an authentic ride, with many twists and turns?
“God Didn’t Promise Smooth Sailing… Just A Safe Harbor!”
Believe in Love,
Leslie Z. XO
Want to learn how I can help you be vulnerable in Love? CLICK HERE!
What Women Really Want

What Women Really Want

What Women Really Want

I always hear guys say that “women are crazy” or “women are impossible to figure out” or “I don’t understand women, WHAT DO WOMEN REALLY WANT?”

I work with so many men who are lost when it comes to dating. Especially dating after divorce, maybe you know you messed up somewhere in your marriage and you want to get it right this time with women.

So today I’m going to give it to you straight.

It’s not as complicated as you may think, but yes, it takes effort. YES, I said EFFORT Fellas! Let’s do this…

  • Take charge and make plans for dates. We don’t mind getting a say in the planning, but we don’t want to do it all. Men are often not stepping up and making decisions, leaving women in a more masculine role. Listen for what hints we give, get to know us and you’ll know where to take us. BUT the first step is to ASK!
  • Don’t forget us. We know you are busy at work and want to hang out with your buddies, but be considerate and don’t forget us. Go shopping with us and hold our bags. Take us out to eat. Don’t make us an afterthought in your plans – or we may one day not be there to make plans with at all. And we won’t complain so much when you plan another poker night with the guys.
  • Yeah, we love the romantic, lovey-dovey stuff. Most of us want the love and attention in a relationship. Do something special for us, even if it’s just picking up flowers from the grocery store. Let us know you care. Make us feel adored. Pretty simple.
  • Listen to us. Support us when we whine or complain or just need to talk. Just listen to what we have to say – but that doesn’t mean we need you to solve the problem for us. Sometimes we just need a sounding board as we work out the problem for ourselves. Give advice when we say we want it, but otherwise just let us talk.
  • Be a man and show some strength. We don’t want a mama’s boy. Be intelligent. Take care of your personal business. Go with the flow and don’t be high maintenance.
  • Take it a step further and have a plan and goals. We find ambition sexy, so show us some. Know what you want and pursue your goals – and make sure they’re better goals than making it to happy hour on Friday night.
  • Help us. Nothing is sexier to most women than a man who’s doing the dishes, washing our car, taking out our trash… even if we are just dating. Take on some household chores or offer to take the kids to school. Make dinner if you don’t know how to cook, google a recipe. Have you read the book, The Five Love Languages? I don’t know many mom’s out there that don’t love “Acts Of Service”. And no, not that service, Goober… ok well yeah sometimes! 😉
  • Learn the word “sorry”. No, really. Sometimes things ARE your fault. Learn how to say so and tell us sorry. That one word can sometimes help defuse situations so much.
  • Be present. When you’re with us, focus on us. Show us you care by giving us your attention and making us feel like the most important thing in the world. When talking, ask questions and listen to the answers without always planning your next response. After all, you know you’re nothing without us. So show your strong woman that you care.
  • 15-20 minutes of foreplay. NO LESS! Hopefully an obvious one, but women make love with their minds, not their genitals. It takes a woman longer to be aroused than a guy and if you were a jackass during the day, forget it. Make up first and then give us at least 15 or 20 minutes of foreplay or just keep it tucked away.

The biggest thing is we want to be made to feel important and wanted. Make us feel special and you’ll keep us happy.

I think that was pretty simple. What are your thoughts?