I had a woman asked me recently, “How did you go from dating disasters to a happy relationship?”
The easy answer is, I manifested him!
I manifested him in the exact time that I predicted.
I’ll get to the manifesting in a few but first…
I had to realize some serious and painful things about me!
Lots of failed relationships.
Some drinking… some binge eating.
A battle with some anxiety and a little depression.
Failed career attempts.
Working in a dead end job.
I had to ask myself, “What the HELL am I doing with my life??”
I was almost 40!
My life had become unmanageable and miserable even though I appeared to be having fun and happy.
APPEARED TO BE…
I NEEDED RADICAL CHANGE!
I became a hermit for about a year.
Hired a life coach.
Started to meditate.
Changed my diet.
Ditched most of my friends.
Took some personal growth classes.
And started feeling at peace.
So the short version of this story is, a couple years later, I decided to take this certification class on something called Time Line Therapy so I could better help my clients heal from the past and find great love.
Well in my class we got to practice on each other and I decided one of my goals was that I wanted to basically create the perfect man for me. Picture the movie, “Weird Science”.
So using this technique I had just learned, my class partner and I did TLT goal setting with the intention that I meet my perfect mate in 30 days.
I got really serious about the core values that I was looking for and I put this man into my time line in 30 days from that date.
Well it was about 5 weeks later that I met Chris on Tinder.
YES… I said Tinder!
Go ahead and laugh but I always tell my clients, “There are good people everywhere when you are open minded and ready!”
So fast forward, at the time of this writing, it’s been almost 2 years since that day!
He is pretty much everything I asked for.
Our relationship has its ups and downs. We have been through a TON together.
But we are happy.
I will say this…
Relationships are not for the faint of heart.
They take the conscious effort of 2 people.
Do the work to heal from the past as much as you can before getting into a relationship.
Hire a coach or mentor to help you with the healing and manifesting.
Have fun with the process, don’t take it all personal.
Wanting help with manifesting your ideal mate?
Let’s have a conversation about what that might look like for you.
Much love to you!